INCEST

  MARRIAGE OF INCEST

            Inbreeding is prohibited by sexual contact because of family ties. Sexual contact can occur between father and daughter, mothers with sons, between brothers and sisters, men with men (homosexual), certain cousin, stepfather and daughter, and many more are forbidden by the religion and culture. For example where a fellow cousin's father were both brothers, in some cultures this is not problematic, but in other cultures it is forbidden. However, if this remains the case then there has been incest.
            Incestuous sexual contact can be prohibited in culture, may also be prohibited in health. Prohibition in culture caused by several things that happens depends on the culture of each, which is sometimes difficult to understand why this could occur. However, incest can happen because of turmoil in the relationship between one another in a family. For example, the brothers who had long been separated, which then met and married but do not know if they are actually brothers.
            Sexual contact between a stepfather and stepson actually does not cause medical problems, but can cause family problems. Sexual contact between cousins ​​can cause certain medical problems. Some sexual contact or marriage between cousins ​​was allowed because of the particular culture used to live in an area where they are difficult to penetrate the border area to get married with another family away from the place. To give the opportunity of marriage to members area then allowed to marry for certain cousins.
            Genetically, 25% of children will experience the result of incest congenital abnormalities. Most likely once this is found in the common ancestor of man, that it is culturally forbidden. Incest can occur because of a deliberate intent to do though have been known to violate the law. For example, sexual contact between the father and his stepson. Everyone knows that the behavior is strictly forbidden but done well.

TYPE - TYPE OF INBREEDING

Incest is divided into 2 (two) types, namely:
1. Incest which is voluntary (without coercion)
Sexual relations that do occur because of elements as they liked.
2. Incest coercive
Intercourse as an element of compulsion, for example in girls threatened with death by his father for refusing to serve the sexual appetite. Incest communities like this in more familiar with the rape of incest.

CAUSES OF INBREEDING
            There are several causes or triggers of incest. The root cause is none other and is due to the influence of structural aspects, namely the situation in an increasingly complex society. The complexity of the situation led to powerlessness on individual self. Especially when he was a man (in fact is likely to be considered and consider themselves more powerful) will be very shocked, and cause mental-psychological imbalance. In such helplessness, in the absence of faith as a force for internal / spiritual, someone will be governed by primitive urges, the sexual urges or aggressiveness. The structural factors include:

(1) Cultural Conflicts.
            Social change happens so quickly in line with technological developments. Communication tools such as radio, television, VCD, HP, newspapers, and magazines have been entered into all corners of Indonesia. Along with it goes also new cultures which actually does not fit with the culture and local norms. People easily get a sex crime news through television shows and written in newspapers and magazines. Also information and experience of pornography and various types of media. As a result, television, VCD, and news in newspapers or magazines that often feature incestuous sexual activity and acts of violence, can be a model for those who can not control his passion.

(2) Poverty.
             Although incest can occur in all layers of the economy, in particular the condition of poverty is a chain of circumstances which raises potential incest. Many poor families have only one house plot. Existing homes are one or two rooms with multi functions. Inevitably, sexual activity had to be done where it can be watched by other family members. Bed child and parents are often no limits anymore. Father who could not restrain his passion easily aroused to see her daughter sleep. Such a situation allows for the occurrence of incest when the opportunity arises.

(3) Unemployment.
            Crisis conditions also resulted in a lot of layoffs that resulted in many people who are unemployed. In a suit seeking employment situation, while the family needed to eat, not infrequently a husband and wife worked hard to work sober. With the condition is rarely at home wife (especially if the TKW), makes the husband alone. Looking for entertainment outside the home need not cost anything. Not rule out the possibility of children who are in conditions to grow into his father's punching bag lust.

In addition to the above factors, Lustig (Sawitri Supardi: 2005) suggests other factors are:
(1) squeezed state, where girls even become the main female figure who take care of families and households as a surrogate mother.
(2) Sexual difficulties in the elderly, the father is not able to overcome his sexual urge.
(3) The inability of fathers to seek sexual partners outside the home because kehutuhan to maintain the façade patriachat its stability properties.
(4) The fear of family breakdown which allows multiple family members to prefer the structure of the disintegration rather than break at all.
(5) Sanctions against veiled women who did not participate in the sexual demands of the role of wife.
(6) Supervision and less educated parents because of busy people working for a living can loosen controls by parental incest may occur.
(7) normal teenager at the time of their adolescent sexual urges are so high because of the influence of impressions that evoke instinctive lust also played a role in this regard.


INCEST FAMILY MEMBERS DOING REASON

(1) father as a perpetrator.
            Possible actors experience less enjoyable childhood, family background is less harmonious, it may even be the perpetrator is the victim of sexual abuse in childhood. Perpetrators tend to have a personality that is not mature, passive, and tend to depend on others. He is less able to control himself / his desire, less able to think realistically, tend to be passive-aggressive in expressing his emotions, lack of confidence. In addition, the possibility of the perpetrator is a user of alcohol or other illicit drugs.

(2) Mother as perpetrator.
             Mothers who had molested tend to have low levels of intelligence and emotional disorders. Mothers who committed incest against her son likely driven by the desire of the figures 'other man' in his life, because of the presence of physical and emotional husband felt less so that she hopes her son can fulfill the desires that are not obtained from her husband. These cases are rare, mainly because women tend to have instinctively nurturing nature and 'protect' children.

(3) brothers as agents.
 Elder sexual abuse victims who do usually mimic the behavior of their parents or have a desire to dominate / punish his brother. In addition, sexual abuse may also be done by the adoptive parents / stepparents, or others who live with the victim, such as foster brother.

AS A RESULT OF INBREEDING
            There are several consequences of this incestuous behavior, especially those that occur because of coercion. Among them are:

(1) psikologis.Gangguan psychological disorders due to sexual abuse or trauma and post-sexual abuse, among others: not able to trust others, fear or worry in intercourse, depression, suicidal and self-destructive behavior of others, self esteem low, feeling guilty, angry, alone and do not want to socialize with other people, and eat irregularly.
(2) Medically shown that children with the result of an incestuous relationship has great potential to experience either physical or mental kecatatan.
(3) Another result is quite disturbing is that they often blame the victim and get a stigma (the label) is bad. In fact, the events they experienced was not because of his will. They are victims of sexual violence. People who should be blamed are the perpetrators of sexual crimes.
(4) Various studies have shown, to adults, children victims of sexual violence such as incest would normally have self-esteem (self-esteem) is low, depression, harbored feelings of guilt, difficulty trusting others, lonely, hard to keep building relationships with people other, and have no interest in sex.
(5) Other studies even suggest that these children end up as adults also lapse into the use of alcohol and drugs, prostitution, and has a propensity to commit sexual violence to children.

EFFORTS TO PREVENT INBREEDING

            To avoid the occurrence of incest is good with atapun not accompanied by sexual violence, should be taken as follows:

(1) Strengthen the faith with the teachings of true religion. Not only prioritize the ritual, but especially the values ​​that are taught so that it becomes an integral part of yourself. This can be achieved by appreciation of God as a person, so the relationship with God is "intimate", not just an absurd utopia.
(2) Strengthen the sense of empathy, so it is more sensitive to the suffering of others, while not the heart to make others as victims.
(3) Charge time with positive creative activity.
(4) Keep yourself and your family from things that can arouse lust.
(5) Provide oversight and guidance to family members, so it can be controlled.
(6) Provide sex education early on, according to the age of the child